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Why Being Friends with a Guy Makes Him Fall In Love With You
Being friends is the key to making a guy fall in love with you!
To understand how being friends with a guy can make him fall in love with you, you must first understand that there are two types of attraction: active and passive. An active attraction is an immediate, intense feeling of lust or love, while a passive attraction is the more low-key appreciation of someone's qualities over time.
Both types of attraction are important in building strong relationships, but they happen at different rates and times in the interaction process.
Friendship Before Romance
Friendship is one of the most important relationships in your life. It can make you feel like you're not alone and it can teach you so much about yourself, other people, and the world. But does that mean that friendship always leads to romance? Well, no.
There are plenty of friends who never date or who have dated but broke up before anything serious ever happened. Maybe they were just too different or they met at a time when they weren't looking for love. When a guy falls in love, he usually doesn't want any other girl more than you.
